Miss Figolu me thinking in his latest post in my report to the authority.
Like her, I am a victim of the syndrome of the eel (copyright Miss Figolu) against all forms of power: j'élude I am, I lower my head, I pretend, j'obtempère but I never faced. I always prefer to make a nice spin. This technique has advantages because it is difficult to get a grip on me (cons if you take me through feelings, then ...).
But it is a technique that I'm tired and I can not as easily apply .... I must now trace the limits that I impose my priorities ... .. Anthony is the second effect double trigger.
I did not realize that as a mom, I would have to embody that authority, it would be essential to help Anthony to grow. It took me a while to understand this aspect of motherhood. I juggle with the concept a bit clumsy and I'm always completely surprised when Anthony is listening. I have the feeling of having achieved a wonderful magic trick that I do not know myself the secret ...
I was not aware either of my level of determination to move forward Antoine everything.
So, I can not evade, run quietly, to escape. I have to face, say not, intrude, oppose. Not easy to do. Not easy to manage the consequences.
At the office, my boss was surprised at first but gradually the frustration mounts. No, I do not stay after 18.00 and it is not negotiable. No, I do not come to the farewell party of a young white beak promoted back to NY. No. And I no apologies.
I say take it or leave it and if "it-does-them-please-no" and while they prepare my check. But
... Between now and a potential check, there is conflict, tension, increasing pressure in short, everything that I have always managed
eel ... Now is the Maginot line and it is not assign ...
Really not easy for the queen of eels ...
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